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The Sun and Relationship Astrology
Synastry: Art of Examining Birth Charts in Relationships ©
Maria DeSimone
Where and how the love of your life lights up your life: how to compare
your Sun sign with someone else's.
Where another person’s Sun falls in
your own natal chart (energy blueprint) will tell you where that
person is most likely to light
up your life.
Their Sun in Your 1st house –
This overlay extends an instant approval of the person. We feel
that the person will be very much like us, with a similar approach
to life. There is a sense that we can easily express who we are around
this person, in the most natural, uninhibited way.
Their Sun in Your 2nd house –
There is a feeling that the Sun person is
instrumental towards you obtaining what you want. There is also
the possibility that the Sun
person wants to “acquire” or “own” the house
person. Values play a central part in this relationship.
Their Sun in Your 3rd house –
The Sun person will bring out the talker in the house person! The
house person senses that the Sun person can teach him something significant.
There should be a general harmony. A link such as this will protect
a relationship; keeping it free from the usual hassles and misunderstandings.
Their Sun in Your 4th house –
The Sun person will instantly feel like
one of “your people”.
It’s as if this person’s energy can connect with your
very soul. In many ways the energy of the Sun person makes you feel
at home with yourself and this person has the potential to bring
great energy to your domestic/family situation.
Their Sun in Your 5th house –
No matter what type of relationship this
is, you will immediately feel pleasure associated with this person.
A sense of fun and beauty
is often attributed to those whose Sun falls into your 5th house.
This person’s solar energy draws out the desire for you to
give love.
Their Sun in Your 6th house –
With this overlay, the Sun person’s ego needs are placed in
the background – in the name of service. The house person may
feel that the Sun person “owes” them a service and indeed
this may be true. The Sun person will want to serve and care for
the house person.
Their Sun in Your 7th house –
This overlay will evoke a deep and potentially transforming response
for both the Sun and house person. In relating to others we are not
seeking a carbon copy of ourselves; rather we are seeking that which
complements us through polarity. It is as if two missing pieces of
a puzzle are united.
Their Sun in Your 8th house –
The Sun person will touch the buried parts
of the house person in profound ways, and forces the house person
to confront his own dark
side. If this is a romantic relationship, the house person will be
powerfully attracted to the Sun person – perhaps obsessively
so. The house person will always perceive the Sun person as something
of an enigma.
Their Sun in Your 9th house –
There can be a deep intellectual and spiritual bond based on sharing
a similar framework of philosophy and values. There is a fundamental
accord and this overlay will produce a result between the Sun and
house person that can continue to broaden their horizons.
Their Sun in Your 10th house –
The Sun person recognizes and respects the leadership qualities
of the house person and will genuinely admire him. The house person
may be elevated somehow by the Sun person. Perhaps their status helps
the house person come into his own leadership role.
Their Sun in Your 11th house –
The Sun person senses that the house person will share his humanitarian
interests and a deep friendship may ensue. The house person is able
to accept the Sun person as the individual he is and the Sun person
may help the house person bring out some of his own unique individuality.
Their Sun in Your 12th house –
There can be misunderstandings and confusion
in this relationship and fear of the unknown might prevent such
a union from lasting.
If the fear and confusion of introspection can be transcended, the
Sun person is capable of shining a light on the house person’s
unconscious processes in order to help him evolve spiritually.
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